What Is Good, Anymore?

“Would you like some more coffee?” ‘No, I’m good” “How are you doing today?” “I’m good, how about you?” “Are we good?” “Yes, it looks good” “God is so good, so good to me!”

You can probably think of the multiple ways you have heard the word good used. It seems to be a generic, catch- all word to describe everything from the ripeness of fruit, to relationships, to our state of mind, to the accuracy in a construction project. The number of times the word is used makes me wonder if everything can be called good. If everything is so good, why is there still bad in the world?

In Christian circles the phrase “God is good” is used many times. I’ve even heard it used in a mocking way, towards believers by unbelievers. Perhaps they too have heard it so many times uttered by Christians that they have witnessed the insincerity of the phrase.

To be sure the word good is used many times in the Bible, beginning in Genesis when God called each of His created things, good. And what God calls good is good. It is His standard, not ours.

Yet, if we are honest, we prefer our standard definition of good, rather than God’s standard. We tend to measure goodness, in terms of contentment, satisfaction and blessing. If it is good for us, than it must be declared good. When God blesses us in our finances, work, families, or generally answers our prayers in the way we want, well, then we declare “God is good!”

If we are honest, we mistake our feelings, for a true declaration of God’s goodness. God’s goodness does not depend upon us calling Him good, based upon our understanding of circumstances, but rather, on who He is. He is good because it is His character. He is still good, whether our circumstances align with the goodness or blessings in our lives. God is still good when a tornado strikes. God is still good when someone is taken from this life too soon. God is still good when we lose everything.

If you visit any book store and search for inspirational stories, i.e. the “religion” section, you will find plenty of Christian books on living the good life. All promise a better life than what you currently live, if only you will buy the book, follow the easy five step plan and in an instant your life will be good. If you follow this direction, I’m sad to say, you will be disappointed. Life is not always good. Life is not always blessed in the ways we want and desire. God is not so much interested in a financial blessing as a spiritual growth blessing in our lives. Growth can mean pain and difficulty. My son suggested a better book title to more accurately describe life as “Life sucks, but it still goes on anyway” I wonder if a book with that title would sell, or if we are too conditioned for the “good life” of ease and blessings.

When children grow, they often experience growing pains. This is not a bad thing, but rather good and necessary. In our darkest, loneliest moments is when grow and increased dependence upon God occurs. We draw closer in our relationship with Him. We cling to Him and call our to Him. Yet, do we ever exclaim “God is good” in our pain?

Yet, so many false teachers are out there in the world, claiming that God wants to make us rich and happy. Reality is, the only ones getting rich and happy are them, selling their books and programs. They have taught us that goodness, and in particular, the goodness of God is to be measured by our own standards, based on our own contentment. We have become the ones who declare God is good, if He meets our standards. We call ourselves good if we do our good works and are recognized for them. We call ourselves good when we reach our personal goals. We call ourselves good when we are content.

And we lie to each other as well. How often have you answered someone who asked how you are with, “I’m good” when inside you are actually a mess. Why not be honest with each other. If you are not okay or “good” say so. Let’s share each other burdens and pray for each other, you know like the Bible instructs us to do.

Finally, we should be aware that our own definition of goodness is very skewed. look around the world and it does not take long to see a shift to the acceptance of bad practices becoming the accepted and normal. Life is not protected and cherished, relationships are temporary and used for pleasure rather than long term commitment. Life is about what we call good. Whatever feels right or convenient. We do not want pain, or worry or difficulty. We want our good. We want our brand of happy.

The prophet Isaiah mentions “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes, and shrewd in their own sight!” (Is. 5:20-21, ESV). Apparently, this has been a problem for mankind for awhile.

I do not have a definition of woe but I’m pretty sure it’s a warning. Yet, mankind still tries to substitute evil for good. We attempt our own definition and usage of good. But, this becomes a problem when your definition of good does not match my definition. If I call something good that you find bad or evil, how can we find resolution? Do we simply isolate ourselves? What if there were an arbiter? To settle the dispute over definition?

Well, thankfully, there is; God is the arbiter to decide what is good. Let’s follow His definition and think twice before we proclaim “God is good!” only when everything is going our way. Let’s allow the Bible to define good and evil. Let us keep on our course and finish the race set before us, whether that means blessings or difficulties. God is still good, and not by our standards, but His. -God Bless You- Nancy

The Truth About Gratitude

The rain has been falling steadily this morning, so I have been taking my time to get ready for the day. Rainy days make me want to stay inside and enjoy a second cup of coffee in the morning. Growing up on a farm, I know the importance these Spring rains are for the crops. The rain loosens the soil and softens it, enabling the plow to carefully til the soil for the seeds to be planted. So, sometimes the rainy mornings are good for the soil of our own hearts as we can be willing to slow down and take our time before heading out for our day.

This morning was like that as I was watching a streaming program as I slowly enjoyed my second cup of coffee. The program I was watching provides a Bible teaching that has practical application for the everyday life. But, for this morning the programing was about the previous year’s(2018) outreaches that this ministry had been involved in. I have to admit that watching the recap of the natural disasters from last year, made me realize how soon I had forgotten about these. There seems to be so many of them so often, that I have become complacent about them.

But the real message I began to think about as I watched was how much outreach had been provided. Thousand of gallons of water, food and supplies were given. Hundreds of people were helping to load cars with these supplies after having unloaded large semi trucks of donated goods. Groups were carrying buckets full of supplies on foot to homes that could not be reached by car. Volunteers were sifting through the rubble of burned out homes to find valuables for the home owners who had lost everything to wildfires. Many of these teams spent time praying with the homeowners to encourage them and offer hope. So many people were helping in the video, it began to spring up a bit of guilt in me. I wished I had helped out too.

But, what also struck me as I watched was how this particular ministry is criticized because it is run by a woman. In the past I have heard many criticisms from fellow Christians such as she has had plastic surgery, owns a mansion and has a private jet. Or that she teaches prosperity. But the truth is there in what she does as a fellow Christian reaching out to those who are in need. No, this isn’t a plug for her either, but just a realization, that should we should all be challenged to do something for others. We might not have the financial means to give a thousand dollars to over seven hundred and fifty families who lost their homes to fire, but we can do something. It starts with a grateful heart.

But honestly, it’s not about being thankful for what we have, or that its not us that is being affected by a disaster. That’s really not the motivation that I am talking about. It’s the motivation that we should have towards what God has done in our lives. The gratitude that comes from realizing what Christ did on the cross for us, to save us from ourselves. To save us from being separated from Him forever, the thing we deserved, but He took instead in our place, defeating death, once for all. That’s the kind of gratitude we need to have. That is the motivation we need to help others.

Colossians 3:15-17 offers a look into what this attitude should be like; “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts toward God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” (NIV).

It’s a long passage, but it offers us an idea of how we should be doing life. If we find ourselves faltering in being grateful and thankful, which according to the passage should be our attitude in what we say or do, it offers the direction to stay in the Word, letting it dwell in you. In other words, reading your Bible, keeps you grateful. Probably because you can be reminded just what you have to be grateful for. It has challenged me today to check my attitude. Have I been grateful lately? Not just thankful. Not just counting my blessings. Not just thankful for what I have. Gratitude isn’t about being thankful for the what in our lives, but the who, Christ, and what He did on the cross. Maybe this upcoming Easter season, we shouldn’t be celebrating new beginnings, but thanksgiving and gratitude, letting God’s Word soften the hardness of our complacent hearts, much like the Spring rains softens the soil, making it ready for planting. -God Bless -Nancy